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Frankie and I both fall into the "fitness cookie in my mouth" camp, but we're back in the groove of working and were able to attend a Spokes and Spurs club drive at Shaker Village over the weekend. It's a beautiful and historic area of Kentucky, south of Lexington, and it's always worth a visit if you are ever in the area.
There are miles and miles and miles of horse trails, but we stuck mostly to the paved and gravel roads. We were allowed to drive up into the village and routed through some beautiful rolling hills with fantastic stone fences. The weather was perfect, the company the best and we had a great day.
We headed in a little earlier than the rest of the group because I could tell Frankie was getting tired, especially on the hills. We've mostly schooled in fairly level ground for the last few weeks as he builds his strength back up. That carriage is heavy and I'm no lightweight...because of the cookies ;-).
I hope you enjoy taking a drive with us.
One of the problems with getting so far behind updating the blog is that I forget all things I want to share. There are two more things I'd like to remember about going to the National Drive.
First up, as I was perusing the tack swap area, a woman came over to see if I had any questions and then stopped short and said "Hey, I know you!" She was a fellow beekeeper and we'd talked bees many years ago. Then she added, "I was so sorry to hear about your neighbor."
We talked about Stella for a few minutes and it made me happy to think of her in such a seemingly random place, still being part of so many lives whether through her bees or her "Stella Knitting". I'm getting ready to do some Stella knitting myself and it does help to think about her laughing about me ripping back yet another sweater.
The other thing is that when I got home, Pinto didn't talk to me for two days. He didn't even come out into the barn lot like he does every night. I was snubbed from afar. He's since forgiven me...or at least is letting me slide on it.
He's a funny sheep and a good friend.
Last week Frankie, Bea and I headed off to The National Drive at the Hoosier Horse Park. The HHP is rapidly becoming my second favorite place in the world :-). This is the same venue that hosted the Combined Driving Event last month and all the arenas and rings and courses (cones and marathon) were still open to play in and that in itself would have made the trip worthwhile, but there was so much more!
There were extra carriage trails set up, several daily workshops to pick and choose from, three clinicians you could take lessons with, train rides with the Indiana Live Steamers, a tack swap, arena derby, pup parade, safari drive, a knit night, bonfire... There was more stuff to do than you had hours in the days. It was like being a kid at pony camp!
I ended up stabled next to a super fun group of spinners and knitters! Thursday night we gathered in front of their stalls to knit and a couple more people stopped by to see what we were working on and share their own projects and we're all looking forward to knitting together again next year.
I took two lessons with Frankie - one working on dressage and one out in the hazards. The arena lesson was excellent and I got lots of good (and stern) feedback, but you'll never beat driving hazards for the best fun and again that was an outstanding lesson and we drove the water obstacle for the first time.
First we worked through three of the dry land hazards that we'd driven for the event. I learned better turning techniques and routes to take through, especially with my two wheeled cart. Most people use four wheeled vehicles now because they handle the tight turns so much easier. I'm not really in the position to replace my cart, nor do I really want to, so I need to be smarter and smoother through the obstacles.
After we finished the third hazard she asked if I'd driven the water yet. I said no, but that I was planning to do so while I was up there. She said "Let's go do it now. My feet are already wet, so if I need to lead you in, it won't be a problem." I told her I thought Frankie would go on in and he did. We let him walk around for a minute, checking things out, and then asked him to trot and then started working on the turns. It was so. much. fun. :-D
The safari drive was another super fun event. There were 50 stuffed animals (be still my heart :-) placed along six kilometers of beautiful wooded trails. Next year maybe my stuffed Fiona will join the safari group. Or maybe 20! He could be set up as a wildlife photographer! He'd love watching all the carriages come by :-).
On the last day I was there they hosted a driving derby. A derby is a group of cones and arena obstacles. Normally it would be a timed competition, but we drove it just for practice. I used it as a sort of "final exam" to see if I could drive the obstacles better now after my lessons. I did much better on everything until the last gate in the second obstacle. I didn't set my turn up as I'd planned and had to regroup to get out, but that's a good lesson in itself. I gave myself a B.
I can't figure out a direct way to imbed the video here, but if you'd like to watch, here's a link to a group of videos posted to Facebook. If that link doesn't open to me and Frankie, I'm wearing a white turtleneck and green vest, so we're not hard to find.
It wasn't just fun and games for me and Frankie. Bea was pretty sure the whole party was set up just for her. One afternoon I didn't see her for almost two hours. Oh, I'd see her buzz by on a golf cart, then a unit, then a different golf cart... She had the very best baby sitters :-).
As I sat out in the barn cleaning harness last night I thought back to the spring when a friend and I were cleaning and polishing harness for a silly little online benefit horse show. We sure didn't need to do all that work. It was going to be videoed with a phone and uploaded to Facebook. No one would ever have noticed if it was clean or dirty. We did it because that's what we did when we used to go to horse shows.
The online show was definitely a silly little show. I never even received the ribbon Frankie won. Still, I thought if I pushed myself to do this monthly online show series, at the end of the summer I'd have an encouraging series of videos hopefully showing how much improvement we'd made through the season and in the fall maybe we would be ready to go to a small Standardbred show.
What wasn't silly about the show was that it clicked something in my head, or maybe my heart, to pull up my big girl pants and Go Do Something. I was already feeling guilty enough about having a nice horse and good equipment and a supportive husband and doing nothing. How much worse would I feel in ten years looking back...wishing I could have a do-over. There could be so many better endings to this story.
Frankie and I worked hard all summer. Very hard, especially considering it was summer. After our positive experience with the Lexington Carriage Classic in June, I decided to focus on trying to get him us ready to go to a full Combined Driving Event in the fall. It's fall...and we ship out tomorrow morning! We are going to the Indiana CDE.
While I'm hoping most of the event will be just as I remembered from almost 20 years ago, much of the required equipment has changed. In the olden days we could trot out wearing ball caps on the marathon (cross country) section. Now we need helmets and safety vests and medical arm bands. "Added to cart."
I've been using Handy's old green harness pads for training and kept trying to pick a new color that better suited Frankie for his own set. Nothing really struck me and as I've mentioned before, I am horribly sentimental. We will be headed out on the marathon course on Sunday with all of our new safety gear...and Handy's vintage pads. I bet they're going to have as much fun as we will!
One of my favorite co-workers in 'ye olden times' was one of my favorite co-workers because any time we had a big job to do we always knuckled down to do it and if at all possible...turned it into a game. We were fierce competitors, but before you knew it, the job was finished and we'd had good fun getting it done.
Twenty plus years later, I still use that technique to get work done. For example, when Miss B and I skirt fleeces, as we roll the fleece and place it in a bag, we each pick up the bag and "weigh" it, make our predictions and then put it on the scale to see who "wins".
It rained most of the day Saturday and the ground was saturated. Sunday dawned cloudy, cold and damp and our scheduled driving lesson and virtual horse show.......ugh...... I could have easily been talked out of it, but I knew if I skipped this month, it would be pretty easy to skip more months this summer. If I completed two in a row, it would then be harder to not keep on going. Enter a game!
The arena was too wet to use so we moved into the side field. The terrain in there is slightly hilly and more conducive to cross country driving, so...why not! In a combined driving event you compete in dressage, cones and marathon. It's just like a ridden event, but with a carriage. Dressage is dressage, cones replaces stadium jumping and marathon replaces cross country.
We built two very simple driving obstacles complete with red and white directional letters like a real horse show. I pulled out all the marathon gear - protective wraps and boots, colorful harness pads. Leslie braided Frankie's tail for better ventilation (I did not know that was the purpose) and we headed out to play.
I know he loves Leslie.
Leslie Cashion has done a great job getting into Frankie's head and figuring out what he's thinking and how to motivate him and give him the confidence to learn, trust and enjoy his new job. We had a super fun drive yesterday and I'm so glad I put out the effort. Job done!